Latest news - it is
2009 and the notes on this website go back to around 1994. They are still valid but we now
have a much more up to date website. Can I suggest that
you go to
Making Your Relationships Work
What is Love?
Its a question we all ask. Heres my favourite definition -
What is Commitment?
What is a Successful Relationship?
What is an Unsuccessful Relationship?
The worst relationship problems arise when one partner (or both) give unconditional commitment (love addiction) in combination with conditional love! This means the inner selves are running everything and the aware adult system is not even present in the relationship.
The fable of the two codependents
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